I don’t do it often, but sometimes the occasion is right, which is undoubtedly the case here. I recently did a little article on one of my daughters who had just started a line of coffee that complimented her art business. While doing the video for that daughter, I talked a bit about my other daughter, who, at that time, was at Loch Ness with her family doing neat things. Out of curiosity, many people have asked me about elements of my personal life, including my kids. They must not know what to think about the kind of children I would have raised, expecting something outlandish to come from me. So, there is a lot of curiosity about the type of people who would come out of my family, not to take anything away from their attributes as individuals. But to say the least, I am proud of my kids. Life isn’t always easy, but they handle themselves well and are good people. I expect that out of them, but given the various doubts about how to have a good family and raise good kids, there are many curious people. While those questions have been coming in, my oldest daughter returned from her trip to Scotland with her husband and their son (one of my grandsons), and they cut together a nice video of their trip. And when I say that, I’d say it’s not just a regular home video of their many adventures, but done with a professional flair with the idea of maybe starting a YouTube travel channel kind of show. They travel a lot, their 7th trip of the year, and spent two solid months on the road going to various places. Their trip to Scotland, much of it shown in the video, was several weeks in November and was interesting enough to show off here so people could see a bit about my family in a nonpolitical setting to satisfy their curiosities.
I like my family, and if given a choice, we often travel together. We were with her on most of the seven trips I mentioned that my oldest daughter had been on this past year. My wife and I took a few trips, especially regarding competitive shooting schedules. I have another daughter and more grandkids often included in these trips. I prefer to have them all come, including their dogs, lizards, and whatever else is part of our family. Just before the trip to Scotland, we spent the end of September together in Florida at Disney World. Before that, I had just returned from Japan, which followed several other weeks in places like Mammoth Cave and Land Between the Lakes. With all that I write here, it’s a small part of my life, as there is always a lot going on, and everything moves quickly. But I think the pace and the amount of things we all do together showed well in my daughter’s video on Scotland. My son-in-law and my grandson even excitingly contributed to the video, illustrating what a pleasant, healthy family experience should look like. When I watched the video, it reminded me of what is essential in all these adventures. And I was proud of them for living outside the box and showing what a good life and family look like. Which, as a parent, is all you want for your kids.
All my grandchildren are homeschooled by their parents, my kids. And on these trips my oldest daughter views as homeschool experiences. Even though they were traveling, they still had school on the road. When they travel in their RV within the states, they often set up a class for a few hours per day in a little room while on the road. In that way, education is always the key to travel, learning many new things, and treating every day like a field trip to an exotic location. So literally, as my youngest daughter was doing a video with me about her new line of coffee, my oldest was at Loch Ness touching the water there, as shown in the video, which puts a bit of continuity to the various conversations where little bits of my personal life spill out for the audience to see. All this reminded me of how inferior the public school experience is compared to what we do as a family. It always reminded me how little we value the public education graduation experience, as my kids spent their senior years in high school in Europe. They graduated, of course, but they left school early to get to living life, which has always been essential for me. They never missed that public school experience, which has carried over into adulthood. They are unique people, and I would argue they are much better prepared for life than most people coming out of the public school experience. Additionally, my wife was an honor student in school until she met me. When we were dating, I told her how stupid the whole school experience was, and she graduated early, just like her daughters, without going to her formal graduation with the cap and gown ceremony. On the day she was supposed to graduate, she and I were on a road trip, traveling very fast on our own journey during a romantic getaway.
The point here is this: people assume that my position on things, especially very conservative politics, might produce little monsters of anti-compliance. Instead, I would say my approach to parenting made very thoughtful young people who know how to get around safely in the world. And to get up in the morning, always looking to expand their intellects. It’s not always apparent as kids go through their biological progression, but once things settle into their thirties, you see what neat people they often grow up to be. And in the case of my kids on that Scotland trip, I am very proud of them for being good people in a big world, showing that they are in control and not being swept away by it. Traveling in that style is no big deal for them, and I think people would be interested in their travel channel on YouTube. We indeed take enough trips to make it enjoyable. That was the first time she approached the subject as a travel vlog with full commentary. Which I thought was very good. But it reminded me of the skills it takes to live such a life and how grateful I am that we did not listen to all the noisy people who tried to get us to raise our children like all the other poor kids running on the treadmill of public school and going through the ridiculous motions of college life. My kids shown in that video have been married for around 15 years, which often shocks people. They are good, solid people with good jobs, a good work ethic, a nice home, and the ability to create a functional family. And it’s nice for me to see them doing good things. And for the curious who wonder, it’s fun for them too.
Rich Hoffman
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